Answer by ssavec for Why is electron gain generally exothermic?

The energy of an electron in a vacuum is zero. If it can attach (however weakly), the energy is gained and the process is therefore exothermic. It is not an atom that releases energy, it is the whole system.

Exactly opposite of previous. The atoms you mentioned gladly release electrons to other atoms, but not to vacuum (which is how ionization energy is defined).

In some cases, adding of extra electron to neutral atom is not an exothermic process. See Periodic table of electron affinities. For example, a helium atom has filled shell with $n=1$. The next electron would be accepted to the shell $n=2$ which has much higher energy, and therefore is not stable. For the half-filled orbitals, similar reasoning applies, but spicing it with Hund's rule.